Okay, so I stole that title from my fave snarky website, Gawker. Regardless, the time has come break my silence and out myself as a fan of Jersey Shore.
Why the admission of guilt? Vinny, a principal cast member, has been suffering from an especially difficult and chronic episode of anxiety. Further, he is being honest about it. He shares this particularly difficult aspect of himself with his roommates, and they, in turn, do everything they can to support, accommodate, and love him.
Anxiety is a serious and life-changing disorder. As Vinny says during interview, it is something he's suffered from since he was 16. More often than not he has short bouts of anixety attacks and is able to roll through them. This time, though, his anxiety has persisted for long enough to roll over into a depressed state. As anyone who lives with this condition knows, sometimes that happens. Sometimes you can't ride the funk to the other side. Sometimes, you don't even feel well enough to tell your closest family and friends what you're experiencing.
Watching Vinny disclose and then discuss his disorder with friends was wonderful. Even if some of the harmfully negative stigma is whittled away at by MTV broadcasting this footage, then some good has been done. I was actually moved to tears by the amazingly supportive and loving response by the other castmates, as well. Each roommate listened and loved Vinny.
In the end, Vinny went home. He had to make a difficult choice and he made it. I hope that the millions of young adults who feel disabling anxiety had a little bit of weight lifted off of their shoulders this week. And that they feel better, more confident and empowered, in making the difficult choices that they must make on a daily basis.
"To read is to empower, to empower is to write, to write is to influence, to influence is to change, to change is to live." -Jane Evershed
Monday, January 16, 2012
Friday, January 13, 2012
My first Stephen King
11.22.63 was 30 hours long - and I could have listened for 30 more.
We chose Stephen King's time travel/historical novel for book club and gave ourselves two months to read it. I finished it in 6 weeks, taking breaks here and there, but always returning. I even listened while working out at the gym. 11.22.63 is the story of Jake Epping and the obdurate past - harmonies and lives intersecting, changing and then aligning and realigning while on an ill-advised mission. It is a love story, and yet it is not. It is an emotional void and then a flood. It is wonderful.
Stephen King is truly a master story teller; I know everyone says this, but I'm saying it here, again. There were times when I would have fitful nightmares after reading before bed - not because the story had frightened me but because there is a certain creepiness in the way that King writes. Sometimes, doom enveloped this world and its characters, and it was just a feeling, the same way that we just feel 14.7 pounds per square inch of atmosphere around us at all times.
I don't know if I'll read more by the famous writer, but I'd like to. The balance of creepiness and romance held my interest the most, I think (and hey, I am a sucker for 20th century historical fiction), and I'm not sure if any of his previous works have the same dynamic. Readers, let me know your thoughts (or recommendations) in the comments!
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